Addicted.

What’s your addiction? Is it money? Is it girls? Is it… oral sex?

A friend hit me up with a question the other night about what he thought might be a problem. He confessed to me that when he finds himself attracted to a female, he can’t but help think of what it would be like to perform oral sex on her. He finds himself wondering about her taste and having her climax in his mouth. He went on to say that sometimes he’s fine with just eating her out and not actually having to penetrate. Now, he wasn’t sure if this was borderline addiction and if his thoughts were a bit overboard.

I personally think there’s nothing wrong that. First of all, he doesn’t whore around with it. It’s not like he’s out performing oral on every female he encounters. And fantasizing about sex is perfectly healthy. Everyone does it. You’ve only got a problem when those fantasies consume your every thought and start interfering with your everyday life.

Besides, a lot of people enjoy giving oral sex. Some find pleasure in pleasing someone else. Actually, I think that’s what makes the best sex in general, being in it to please the other person. Sex is about creating a mutual erotic pleasure between you and your partner. There’s no need to be selfish and just think about getting a nut for yourself. It’s about the connection that you create in the midst of the passion.

Now.. if you’re dealing with a jump, well by all means.. beat and be out.