My mother and I have a very healthy relationship and we always have. The funny thing is that for me, I often end up with Plan B from the start. The girl possesses her cute personality and good looks…only. The intellect, and wherewithal was never anywhere to be found and that always became more evident through time.

Over the summer a good friend of stressed that I would make someone VERY happy one day. I value that comment because I believe that I have the capacity to do so, but for now I’m not going to settle for B any longer. I’d honestly rather be A-less until then.

I was watching Judge Judy today and the Plaintiff was suing the mother for a vehicle the mother purchased for her. The boyfriend of the girl, whom was also using the car, was to make payments on the car as long as he lived in the house with them, however once they moved out the car was no longer theirs to use. Everyone made payments on time, and so Judge asked why they left. The girl lied and said they wanted to have their own space, but the mother revealed the truth and said that the boyfriend was abusive and provided photos as proof. The boyfriend then stated that he had four different disorders, ranging from Schizophrenia to Bipolar! I guess he was looking to justify his actions.

My friend brought to light that psychological effects are primarily to blame for such behavior, I just shake my head: I see/hear about a lot of females in unhealthy relationships that either have been raped, beaten, lied to, cheated on or just treated poorly. To quote Ne-Yo, “Why [do they] stay?”. Surely for a myriad of reasons.